Divorce   mediation is less expensive: 
                    
                      - requires only one   mediator as opposed to two or more attorneys   
                      
 - no time wasted waiting in   court (while paying the attorneys)   
                      
 - no need to use attorneys   to relay messages between the parties   
                      
 - avoids costly   "disclosure" motions and process 
 
                     
                  Divorce   mediation is faster: 
                  
                      - avoids delays; parties   communicate directly with each other, not through attorneys   
                      
 - no need to wait for court   dates   
                      
 - avoids repeated trips to   court   
                      
 - avoids the need to   accommodate the schedules of several attorneys   
                      
 - promotes cooperation   rather than competition 
 
                   
                  Divorce   mediation is more private and informal: 
                  
                      - conversations and   information revealed in mediation are confidential   
                      
 - discussions take place in   a private office, not on the witness stand in a public courtroom     
                      
 - there are no complicated   or mandatory procedures to follow 
 
                   
                  Divorce   mediation is more effective: 
                  
                      - encourages consideration   of a greater variety of options and solutions   
                      
 - allows each party to   express underlying emotions and concerns   
                      
 - promotes greater trust,   understanding, acceptance and cooperation   
                      
 - focuses on plans for the   future, rather than on blame for the past   
                      
 - increases the likelihood   that the parties will honor the agreement after the divorce 
 
                   
                  Divorce   Mediation is voluntary: 
                  
                      - there are no court orders   or motions to compel compliance or attendance   
                      
 - the agreement is created   by the parties, and is not imposed by judges or attorneys   
                      
 - can be terminated by   either party at any time 
 
                   
                  
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